Heidi and Scott's Rustic Backyard DIY Wedding

We held our wedding at our home, with a few dozen close family and friends in attendance. The ceremony was in the backyard and a close friend officiated the ceremony. We had a dinner reception inside the house, followed by several boisterous rounds of Cranium (with teams of Boys Vs. Girls of course!).

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Our goal was to do as much of the wedding ourselves as possible. Heidi made her gown and reception dress, as well as dresses for two of her friends. Scott laid a new tile floor throughout the house in preparation for the wedding, as well as making the invitations from scratch and being generally the most useful groom in the history of wedding planning.

Instead of having a traditional wedding party with bridesmaids and groomsmen, we asked our parents to participate in the ceremony. Heidi's mother sang a beautiful rendition of "My Luve is Like A Red, Red Rose" (a traditional Scottish love song set to music by Robert Burns). Scott's mother was the matron of honor, holding Heidi's bouquet and helping the ring-bearer with his duties. (Heidi's son Tyrion was the ring-bearer.) Scott's father read a passage from Madeline L'Engle, and Heidi's father read a passage from Kahlil Gibran. We also wrote our own vows, basing them on the lyrics to "Lovesong" by The Cure.

We did hire outside help for the food, flowers and photography. However, Heidi and her friends made the wedding cake, basing it on a recipe from Hello, Cupcake.

Date: March 13, 2010

Location: Punta Gorda, Florida, at the bride and groom's home.

Style: Semi-Formal.

Theme: Butterflies

Wedding Gown and Bridesmaid Dresses: made by the bride, who is a seamstress and makes historical costumes (Time Travel Costumes)

Photography: Manuel Porven, iphotograf

Flowers: Patty's Flower Shop

Invitations: made by the groom

Food and Catering: Joseph Madajski (an old friend of the groom's family)

Hair and Makeup:done by friends of the bride

Vows: inspired by the lyrics from "Lovesong" by The Cure:
However far away I will always love you
However long I stay I will always love you
Whatever words I say I will always love you
I will always love you
(~ The Cure)

Music: Ipod playlist. We tasked two guests with making sure it went smoothly.

Cake: Butterfly Cupcake Swarm made by the bride and her friends (inspired by a recipe from Hello, Cupcake)

Registry: Target & Amazon.com

The groom before the wedding, waiting for the bride (who's late as usual).Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

The groom with his brother.
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Getting ready beforehand... it turns out that 6 hours is not enough time for 7 girls to prepare for a formal event. The girls were all late to the wedding. But luckily, a wedding can't start with out the bride!
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding

Here comes the bride...
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Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

This picture is particularly poignant since everyone (including the officiant) is teary-eyed. In fact the only person not crying is the ring bearer. Go figure. Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Still having trouble keeping it together; most emotional bride ever.
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

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Photographers hard at work! (Brandyn on the left, Manny on the right).
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Some of the groom's college friends...
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Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

The cake, made by the bride and her friends. The cake toppers are miniature hallmark ornamnets which have now been added to the Christmas decorations box and will come out to live on the Christmas tree every year.
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Florida Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding

The ringbearer and his friends got into the costumes and decided to be princesses. Next time someone tells you that nothing can upstage the bride at her own reception... tell this story. It was HILARIOUS.
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding

The "reception" dress; also made by Heidi. Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

Playing Cranium after the bulk of the wedding guests had gone home.
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

The boys' team...
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

The girls' team...
Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium

The bride and her sister...Heidi and Scott's Rustic DIY Backyard Wedding Cranium